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Don't settle for anything less than someone who loves you. Don't love when you're lonely, love when you're ready. Don't think that it happens all the time, either. Holding hands while walking down a high school hallway isn't love. Real love is hard to come by, but it comes. Maybe not for a while, but it shows up at some point. All of us are loved, but sometimes that person you want isn't in your life yet. Don't worry. They will be. Stop waiting for it please know there are much better things in life than being lonely or liked or bitter or mean or self-conscious. we are all full of shit. go love someone just because. i know your heart may be badly bruised, or even the victim of numerous knifings, but it will always heal. even if you don't want it to, it keeps going. there are the most fantastic, beautiful things and people out there, i promise.
it is up to you to find them. you fall in love with someone because of the tilt of his smile, or because he can make you laugh; or in this case, because he made you believe you were the one who could save him. 
When you feel like giving up
remember why you held on so long in the first place. It always makes my day to see his smile
Even if he's not smiling at me “Because let’s face it- no matter how much you tell yourself you’re over someone,your heart knows the truth.”
–Two Way Street 
Do you think the reason we fight so much is because we can't face the fact that we might still be in love it's weird, you know, the end of something that has taken so much time to get over is coming, and you're so relieved that it's finally here but you still, for some reason, want to hold on. just for one more second. if she's amazing, she won't be easy. if she's easy, she won't be amazing. if she's worth it, you won't give up. if you give up, you're not worthy. 
It takes strength to be certain,
It takes courage to have doubts.
It takes strength to fit in,
It takes courage to stand out.
It takes strength to feel a friend's pain,
It takes courage to feel your own.
It takes strength to hide your faults,
It takes courage to show them.
It takes strength to keep people out,
It takes courage to let them in.
It takes strength to hold on,
It takes courage to let go.
It takes strength to survive,
It takes courage to live. Boy, it's been awhile since I heard your voice. I didn't want
to call you, but my heart left no choice. I just called to tell
you that I'm really doing fine. That I've been doing lots of
thinking and I finally decided it was time, to say my last goodbye. It's there. I know it is. Because when I look at you, I can feel it 
It's funny how when you finally get over someone, you start seeing them in a whole new perspective. It's like you're looking at them through the eyes of your best friend, and you realize, he's nothing special. He's just another ordinary boy stay mad as long as you can.
because once you're not mad anymore; it hurts.
it hurts like hell and once it hurts that bad,
you can't make yourself mad anymore.
-- Little Black Book Let's play hopscotch in malls.
Let's drive fast with the top down.
Let's turn up the music as loud as it'll go.
Let's put a couch on an island
in the middle of the freeway
and wave at everyone on their way to work.
Let's hug strangers in parking lots.
Let's hand out secret messages at traffic lights.
Let's make lists of all the things that make us smile
and tick them off, one at a time.
The world will carry on without you and me when we're gone.
Let it carry on without us, today. 
I'm still here,
But it hasn't been easy,
I'm sure that you had your reasons,
I'm scared for this emotion,
For years I've been holding it down, And I,
Love to forgive and forget,
So I,
Try to put all this behind us,
Just,
Know that my arms are wide open,
The older I get, the more that I know.
Well it's time to let this go.
-James Morrison it's such a lie that you should do what's in your heart. if we all did what was in our hearts, the world would come to a halt.
-- My So-Called Life 
if you afraid of going to far, how will you ever know how far it can go? Women are always under the impression that men love them more than they really do.
( The Painted Veil ) And maybe someday
We'll figure all this out
Try to put an end to all our doubt
Try to find a way to make things better now
And maybe someday we'll live our lives out loud
We'll be better off somehow, someday.
-Rob Thomas 
Then what, where you gonna turn,
When you cant turn back for all the bridges you burned. fell asleep last night with tears in her eyes.
it may take her some time to grasp
the meaning of goodbye.
she won't forget him, but she'll try Guys drink to forget about girls. Girls drink to think back about the guy. When guys are in love, they become poor. When girls are in love they become pretty. Guys can forget, but can’t forgive. Girls can forgive but can’t forget. Guys break up when they feel love from another girl. Girls break up when they feel the separation from their man. Guys feel curiosity towards all girls. Girls feel curiosity towards guys who are interested in them. When guys are heartbroken they try to forget about the girl by going out with another girl. When girls are heartbroken they try to find his characteristics in another guy. But finally, guys wish to be her first love, girls wish to be his last 
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most of our life is a series of images.. they pass us by, like towns on the highway. but sometimes a moment stuns us as it happens, and we know that this instant is more than a fleeting image. we know that this moment, every part of it, will live on forever. - onetreehill.
We wait to be rescued, but for whatever reason no one comes. We figure that if no one protects us then we must not be worth protecting so we become prey and are easily picked off. Our wounded, kicked-puppy gazes attract sly predators and we sell ourselves for clearance sale prices,
mistaking screwing for caring.
-- Such A Pretty Girl In a word that I seldom understand, there are winds of destiny that blow when we least expect them. Sometimes they gust with the fury of a hurricane, sometimes they barley fan one’s cheek. But the winds cannot be denied, bringing as they often do a future that is impossible to ignore. You, my darling, are the wind that I did not anticipate, the wind that has gusted more strongly then I ever imagined possible. You are my destiny. 
Dreams are always crushing when they don't come true. But it's the simple dreams that are often the most painful because they seem so personal, so reasonable, so attainable. You're always close enough to touch but never quite close enough to hold and it's enough to break your heart.
-The Notebook I remember every look upon your face, the way you roll your eyes, the way you taste. You make it hard for breathing 'cause when I close my eyes and drift away, I think of you and everythings okay and finally now, believing and maybe it's true, that I can't live without you. Well maybe two is better than one. But there's so much time, to figure out the rest of my life, and you've already got me coming undone... and I'm thinking, two is better than one. At some point, you've just got to jump.
You've got to quit being scared of the "maybes" and "what-ifs" and just fucking jump.
Quit cheating yourself out of the best thing that could ever happen to you, quit cheating him out of the same, and just fall.
Fall hard, fall long, and fall forever. 
Let the world change you
so you can change the world You always deserve to be the most important person in somebody's life. Anybodys, just somebodys. You deserve better then to be left alone in this cold world. You deserve to be loved For what it's worth: it's never too late or, in my case, too early
to be whoever you want to be. There's no time limit, stop whenever
you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to
this thing. We can make the best or the worst of it. I hope you make
the best of it. And I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you
feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a
different point of view. I hope you live a life you're proud of. If you
find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.
-The Curious Case of Benjamin Button 
The man who said 'I'd rather be lucky than good' saw deeply into life. People are afraid to face how great a part of life is dependant on luck. It's scary to think so much is out of one's control. There are moments in a tennis match, when ball hits the top of the net, & for a split second it can either go forward or fall back... with a little luck, it goes forward & you win. Or maybe it doesn't, & you lose.
( Match Point ) The future may freak us out, but it will come either way. The past may give us mixed emotions, but it will stay with us no matter what. It is possible to forgive, to regret, to remember and even to forget, but it is impossible to lose the entire truth. Never let anyone fall for
you when you know there's someone
else in your heart and mind. 
Two of the hardest tests in life:
The patience to wait for the right
moment and the courage to accept
that you've waited for nothing. Avoiding something doesn't always mean that
you hate it, it could also mean that you
want it but you just know it isn't right. "If you have a sister and she dies, do you stop saying you have one? Or are you always a sister, even when the other half of the equation is gone?"
-my sisters keeper 
You can erase someone from your mind.
Getting them our of your heart is another story.
-Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind Empires are not brought down by
outside forces. they are destroyed
by weaknesses from within.
++Smallville You love someone, you open yourself up to suffering,
that's the sad truth. Maybe they'll break your heart, maybe
you'll break their heart and never be able to look at yourself
the same way. Those are risks. That's the burden. Like wings,
they have weight, we feel that weight on our backs, but they
are a burden that lifts us. Burdens which allow us to fly.
-Bones 
The fact that you cannot kiss your
elbow is enough to make you realize that
some things seem to be so close, yet they
are bound to be beyond your reach oh you should never, never doubt what nobody is sure about.
-Willy Wonka It's funny, I can't tell you how many times I spent wondering when
I was gonna hear you say that again. Just hoping that the next time
the phone would ring, it'd be you calling to say those words.
And now you're here and I can't even remember why I needed to
hear them. You should recognize this next move,
you perfected it, it's called turning my back and leaving you behind.
- One Tree Hill 
She'd tell him about her dreams, he's just shooting them down. He loved to make her cry. "You're crazy for believing you'll ever leave the ground." He said, "Only angels know how to fly." With a broken wing she still sings. She keeps an eye on the sky. With a broken wing, she carries her dreams. You ought to see her fly. mistakes can not be taken back only lived through You never think the last time is the
last time. You never think there won't
be more. You think you have
forever, but you don't. 
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And if there's no tomorrow, and all we have is here and now,
I'm happy just to have you, you're all the love I need somehow It's in your mind
It's in your eyes
So it's goodbye again
It's way past time
For one last try
So it's goodbye again To need someone more than you want is
insecurity. To want someone more than you
need them is lust. Love is when you need
and want someone in your life in equal amounts 
“Tell him yes,” she said. “Even if you are dying of fear, even if you are sorry later, because whatever you do, you will be sorry all the rest of your life if you say no. -Love in the Time of Cholera The adventure is over. Everything gets over, and nothing is ever enough. Except the part you carry with you.
-E.L. Konigsburg When you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth. 
It's so hard to forget pain, but it's even harder to remember sweetness.
We have no scar to show for happiness. We learn so little from peace. All human wisdom is summed up in two words - wait and hope. Everyone has a desire. But I think it gets
lost in translation. And we start to desire all
of the wrong things for the wrong reasons. 
And then my soul saw you, and it kind of went,
“Oh there you are. I’ve been looking for you." You need chaos in your soul to give birth a dancing star.
-Friedrich Nietzche you have to forget what other people say,
when you'rse supposed to die, or when you're supposed to be loving.
You have to forget about these things.
You have to go on and be crazy. Craziness is like heaven.
Jimi Hendrix 
In life, no one has ever abused you more than you have abused yourself. To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are. Forget his name. Forget his walk.
Forget the way he used to talk.
Forget the love that you once knew.
Remember now, there's someone new.
Forget the fun that you once shared.
Forget the fact that he once cared.
Forget the time you spent together.
Remember now, he's gone forever.
Forget you memorized his every part.
Forget how he held your heart. 
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How many times do you set love free before you know whats supposed to be This world isn't easy, don't try to understand it. You're allowed to keep what you want inside, and it's okay not to be easy to read. Cause the people that love you the most will love you so much more than those things. Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak;
courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.
++ Winston Churchill 
Even with the distance, slowly wearing at your name,
your hands still catch the light the right way
and our hearts still beat the same. Subtract your own apathy.
We'll stack our hands like legos
and paint this whole town
whatever color we want.
Something more pleasing to the eyes, though.
Because lately everyone is talking
about how Love is dead.
And I'm not going to believe them anymore.
It's not like they ever believed
it was alive in the first place. The question will be,
when the time comes, do you want to be saved?
- Captain Hook 
To love. To be loved. To never forget your own insignificance. To never get used to the unspeakable violence and the vulgar disparity of life around you. To seek joy in the saddest places. To pursue beauty to its lair. To never simplify what is complicated or complicate what is simple. To respect strength, never power. Above all, to watch. To try and understand. To never look away. And never, never, to forget.
I mean, i got everything a need right here with me. i got air in my lungs, a few blank sheets of paper. i mean, i love waking up in the morning not knowing what's gonna happen, or who i'm gonna meet, where i'm gonna wind up. i figure life is a gift and i don't intend on wasting it. you don't know what hand you're gonna get dealt next. you learn to take life as it comes at you, to make each day count.
-Titantic everything we do is a choice. oatmeal or cereal, highways or sidestreets, kiss her or keep her. we make choices
and we live with the consequences. if someone gets hurt along the way, we ask for forgiveness. it's the best anyone can do. -Pushing Daisies 
I will always be in awe with the world, always spiritually connected. I have seen the beauty of life, and to take it in all at once.. euphoric. I'm going to finish this spiritual journey. If I become lost, don't fret. I will come back with empowering knowledge. There are a million things left for me to discover. The truth is, I don't really learn that much about your faith by asking questions like that... because those aren't really questions about faith, those are questions about religion. & it's very important to understand the difference between religion & faith. Because faith is not about having the right answers. Faith is a feeling. Faith is a hunch, really. It's a hunch that there is something bigger connecting it all... connecting us all together. & that feeling, that hunch, is God. & coming here tonight, on your Sunday evening... to connect with that feeling, that is an act of faith. & so all I have to do is look around the room at this packed church... to know that we're doing pretty well as a community. Even if all of you failed my pop quiz miserably.
( Keeping The Faith ) Worry about your character not your reputation,
because your character is who you really are,
and your reputation is simply what others think of you. 
The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet.
+ andy warhol\ Some people can just move on, you know. They mourn and cry and then they're done with it or at least appear to be. But to me, I don't know. I didn't want to fix it; I didn't want to forget it. It wasn't something that was broken, it was just something that happened. And I'm finding ways, everyday, of working around it. I'm respecting and remembering it, but I'm getting along with my life at the same time If I could go back now
I wouldn't change a thing
Oh it feels so good
To say
Guess we made it this far
Guess we're doing alright
Looks like we made it out alive
Yeah we made our mistakes
But we followed our hearts
Even though we drift apart
For always, forever
-Every Avenue 
I love that feeling. You know, the one you get when you take a deep breath and suddenly everything feels like it's going to be okay. When you're hopeless as can be, and life is going nowhere, there's those moments we have every now and then where we just stop, and we get this feeling, that can't be described, but you just.. you just feel like everything really is going to be okay. Like the world stopped spinning for a second, and everything was clear. I need more of those moments. If you're reading this...
congratulations, you're alive.
If that's not something to smile about,
then I don't know what is. just remember: this isn't good-bye. you are my destiny.
-the oc 
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Life is an adventure. Being on Earth is an opportunity for progress & learning. It's about forgetting everything. Erasing the memory of the past & allowing yourself to enjoy new experiences. Being happy is within reach. God created us all to be happy & life tends to show us this truth. The world is what we make of it. When we change the way we think, we'll change the world. Maybe it's not my weekend,
But it's gonna be my year.
And I'm so sick of watching while the
minutes pass as I go nowhere.
And this is my reaction, to everything I fear,
Cause I've been going crazy, I don't want to
waste another minute here. Words only affect you, as much as you let them.
-Jenifer Lopez i was told to never look back, to keep walking.
and the minute i looked over my shoulder,
i saw everything i ever gave up on.
all the things i let go of,
and all of the people who let go of me 
That's the problem with us. We're both stubborn asses and always want to get our way. We both hate to be wrong and love to be right. But that's the thing about love. No matter what happens, we always come back for each other, one more time.
- The Notebook And people are always asking how I'm doing,
but every question still has you in it.
And I never think about you,
but you're always on my mind. we accept the love we think we deserve.
-- The Perks of Being a Wallflower I like coincidences. They make me wonder about destiny, and whether free will is an illusion or just a matter of perspective. They let me speculate on the idea of some master plan that, from time to time, we're allowed to see out of the corner of our eye.
--Chuck Sigars 
We are sometimes right to look on the black side of life. There’s those days. The ones where you’re happy but you know it won’t last. And then it crashes. You crash. And fall. And it is not because you looked on the black side of life, it is just because. And we know our own pessimistic outlook on life should have been a warning, and we should have been prepared, but we weren’t. We weren’t and we never will be. And then the cycle starts again. the more you look, the less you see,
so close your eyes and start to breathe
The hardest part of this whole situation is that neither of us knows what's going on. Neither of us knows what each others thinking and we're both trying to make decisions based on information we don't know. I'm scared to tell you my feelings just in case you don't feel the same way. The thing is, we say these things now.
And we know how crazy it is to be
talking about a forever together, when
we don't know what forever holds.
The thing about these high school
relationships is, even through all the
uncertainty, is even then there's that
one person you mean it to. You mean it
more than you ever meant it before. And
even though deep down you feel so special,
you know it's all cliché. You know people
have been fooled before. You know people
have been wrong before but you don't care.
It feels real. It is. For now. And the
thing is, it changes you. It really does. 
All these places had their moments, with lovers & friends I still can recall... in my life I've loved them all.
( In My Life ; The Beatles ) And I can't stop thinking about what could have happened if we hadn't given up on each other. Don't promise me forever. Just love me day by day.
No one knows the future. We're young, but
that's okay.
-Alexander Rybak in some ways, you're pretty lucky. you opened your heart, you put yourself out there. you were ready to make that leap. i'm envious. i wish i knew what that felt like. to find someone who makes you wanna swim the
east river in january. -- Ugly Betty 
What if we already met the right person, but weren’t ready to fall in love Beautiful things come out of horrible situations. I know for a fact. Out of sadness you get a new found wisdom on how the world can look with a haze of gray clouds, how people can be senseless, how you can see the whole universe in a whole new way. And that may be hard to handle, hard to cope, hard to accept, but it is so damn beautiful if you really take the chance to realize. Out of anger, you can feel your heart beat race, with every beat it is shaking your whole being and not only the heavy steps you take. It is when you, your whole self and some power is telling you that you are alive. And that is amazing in every angle. Out of anything there is something in there that makes it incredible. Something that makes it shine. Whatever you feel is potent and it is such a blessing to be able to feel what you feel. You just have to think about it. I wonder what we have when we're not pretending. that's what you don't get.
to find two people who have
the same heart isn't a coincidence.
it's a god damn miracle.
and it happens every day. 
In the fallout now
It's hard to feel like we can turn around
With the damage done
It's hard to see how far we've come
We could not be proud
Of where our feet have walked along the ground
In the silence now
We play it back and forwards again
I can't believe it now, the time has come We roll the dice we play like fools
We plead with time to change the rules
It's like a hurricane is coming our way
We've all been warned but we still chose to stay In the light of the morning
Can we change what we felt and heard
Can we turn it into the glory
Break the paths of our fathers before us
Though we stand on the outside
We will find what we once believed
And will crawl our way to the clear skies
Standing up we are
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regret comes in all shapes and sizes. some are small, like when we do a bad thing for a good reason. some are bigger, like when you let down a friend. some of us escape the pain of regret by making the right choice. some of us have little time for regret because we're looking foward to the future. sometimes we have to fight to come to terms with the past, and sometimes, we bury our regret by promising to change our own ways. but, our biggest regrets are not for the things we did - but, for the things we didn't do. things we didn't say that could've saved someone that we care about. especially when we can see the dark storm
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